Unforgettable Moments at Funerals: Inappropriate Encounters and Unforgettable Scenes

Funerals are traditionally solemn and respectful occasions, yet they can sometimes be the stage for some peculiar and inappropriate moments. Here are a few such instances that stand out in the author's memory.

Crass Comments at the Open Casket

At the viewing for a friend's ex-wife's open casket funeral, a rude and insensitive comment was made by the widower's girlfriend. She remarked, 'Are they going to cremate her with all that jewelry on?' The comment was made aloud in the presence of several family members, which was anything but classy.

Humbling Moments in a Small Town

During the double funeral for the author's aunt and uncle in a small town, the family had requested that the caskets remain closed. However, the cousin refused, leading to an embarrassing moment when an elderly lady remarked, 'She looks like she's sleeping.' The author vividly recalled the undeniable fact that the aunt had been hit by a gravel truck, making the comment disrespectful and insensitive.

A Divorce Significantly Impacting a Funeral

The funeral of Granny Lucille, the author's maternal grandmother, highlighted an instance of inappropriate behavior. One of the author's mom's cousins was going through a divorce and brought his daughter, Margot, a four-year-old, to the funeral service. The act of bringing her up to the casket to say goodbye was misunderstood by Margot, who was too young to fully grasp the significance of the ceremony. The author reflects on this moment, noting the inappropriateness of the scene.

The Vicar's Embarrassing Moment

Even the most experienced funeral directors can encounter awkward moments. During a funeral his father had to conduct, a poorly timed and inappropriate interruption occurred. The vicar wrongly assumed he was delivering a well-received and respectful eulogy, until an elderly woman, the same age as the deceased, stood up and exclaimed, 'Now never you mind about that love We all know he was a BASTARD'. This action by the woman overshadowed the intended message and certainly wasn't conducive to a respectful funeral service.

These stories are not only memorable for the author but also serve as a reminder of the importance of sensitivity and respect during such solemn occasions. While funerals are times for honoring the deceased, they must also be managed with care and respect for all present.

Conclusion

Despite the solemn nature of funerals, they can occasionally be the stage for some memorable and often inappropriate moments. Whether through crass comments, inappropriate behavior, or poor conduct, these experiences serve as a valuable reminder of the need for sensitivity and respect during these important ceremonies.