Navigating Life as an Expat in Delhi: A Personal Insight

Having lived in Delhi for three years, I can confidently say that life there is a rollercoaster ride. If you are considering relocating to Delhi as an expat family or want to gain insights into the life there, this resource is highly recommended.

The Traumas of Public Spaces

Life in Delhi, and indeed in most Indian metropolitan cities, can be quite challenging if you are not accustomed to it. Starting with the sense of smell, Delhi is famous for its stench, especially in areas with open drains and garbage. The public toilets are in a state of extreme disrepair, making them unappealing and gross to navigate. As for the sense of sight, the entire city is filled with trash, ranging from overflowing garbage bins to unsightly buildings and crowds of people.

Adapting to the Local Climate

Another aspect that can be quite challenging is the extreme weather. Winter can be freezing cold while summers are scorching hot, leaving only a couple of months of mild weather in spring. Moreover, during the monsoon season, the floods can spread the dirty water of drains and sewers, and the rains often lead to smog that can become almost hazardous to breathe.

Social Life Challenges

The social life in Delhi can also be quite complex, especially for expats. If you find yourself in a place far from other expats, you might end up feeling isolated due to language barriers and cultural differences. Many groups and activities are conducted exclusively in the local language, and local people are very particular about their privacy, leading to unique social dynamics.

Finding a Place to Call Home

Residential gated societies are often the best option for expats, but even there, the noise can be overwhelming. Home renovations and construction noise can be at ear-splitting decibels, making it difficult to relax or work at home. Additionally, the air and water quality in Delhi pose significant health risks, with severe air pollution and contaminated water sources.

Local people are generally hospitable to tourists but not to expats looking to settle down. They are ethnocentric and nationalistic, often viewing foreigners and a different culture with suspicion. This can also include derogatory terms for foreign nationals, such as 'gori' or 'firangi', and the belief that foreigners have loose morals.

Conclusion

In conclusion, while Delhi has some attractions and perks, it is not ideal for settling down with your family, especially if you have other options. The cost of living is relatively low, but the challenges and discomforts make it a less appealing destination. Consider exploring other destinations that offer similar or better living conditions without the half-baked issues that Delhi frequently faces.

Remember, my experience is subjective, based on my personal experience in Delhi. I hope this gives you a clear picture of what to expect and helps you make an informed decision if you are considering living in Delhi as an expat.

Thank you for reading. If you have any questions or need further insights, feel free to contact me. Let's avoid polemics such as 'my country vs yours' and focus on understanding each other's perspectives.