What did you like best about growing up in England?

I spent my childhood in a small industrial village with a population of around 5,000 people. My family lived in a public house that offered a spacious environment for exploring and playing indoors, especially during inclement weather. However, there was little downside to the weather, as the natural surroundings were vast and liberating.

On sunny days, my friends and I would go to the village park, create dens, and explore the countryside, sometimes taking our bicycles to neighboring towns. My 8th birthday brought a new world of freedom, as I learned to ride my bike on the quiet high street of the village. These moments were encapsulated in the phrase 'as free as a bird,' reminiscing about those happy days. My parents were the kindest and most loving ones I could ever have wished for.

Home

My childhood was defined by safety and peace, far from the dangers of guns and the chaos of law enforcement. I recall the tranquility and simplicity of my village life, which contrasted sharply with the divisive and often violent narratives in the United States.

One thing I cherish the most about living in England is the UK's unwritten golden rule of politeness. Manners encapsulate the essence of any social interaction, playing a crucial role in both personal and professional contexts. Pointing fingers at rudeness, the UK prides itself on a courteous demeanor.

Our politeness, however, is a paradox. A defining example is crossing the street. When someone needs more space to walk, one politely steps aside. But when the other person also waits, the exchange turns into a negotiation, with each trying to 'out-polite' the other. The conversation goes something like this: "I'll only do it if you want," "No, no, you go first," "But I really need to help you," "No, honestly, it's fine." The end result? Drawing attention to the situation and doing nothing.

This politeness is often used as a mask to avoid helping, with the assumption that the other person understands. The phrases 'Well you started it' and 'Peace and Love' are often used to dismiss offers of assistance. Interestingly, this politeness culture is both a virtue and a curse, a source of social harmony and a manifestation of British intrigue.

Conclusion

In summary, the village where I grew up in England provides a stark contrast to the bustling and diverse landscapes of the United States. The freedom, kindness, and politeness that defined my childhood are cherished memories. I learned the value of manners and courtesy, even in the quirky and paradoxical moments, that shape life in the UK. These experiences molded me into the person I am today and will always hold a special place in my heart.