Introduction

Reflecting backward, I wish I could have advised my teenage self on certain life lessons. Whether it pertains to career, relationships, or personal growth, the advice column below highlights the wisdom I wish I had known back then. These lessons are not just for the young, but for anyone seeking to navigate the complex world with clarity and confidence.

Focus on Education

‘A High School Diploma these days are not enough in this Society.’ Your education is your golden key to the future. The world is evolving rapidly, and staying informed and educated can significantly enhance your life outcomes. I would encourage my teenage self to study hard and get a High School Diploma, and then pursue a Junior College to obtain their Associate's Degree. This flexibility in education can help you explore different paths and make informed decisions about your future career. Perhaps you might join the military, where you can serve your country and still receive education through the GI Bill. Remember, education is a lifelong journey. Use it to your advantage, no matter where your journey takes you.

Personal Relationships and Focus

‘Most important leave the opposites alone for now. You are number One.’ Prioritize your own well-being and personal growth during these crucial formative years. Build confidence in yourself and focus on your individual goals and aspirations, rather than fitting into someone else’s expectations. You have your own path to follow. This self-focus not only helps you grow but also ensures that you do not compromise your values and dreams.

Investing in Technology

‘Buy a couple of hundred dollars worth of Microsoft and or Apple computer stock.’ Technology is a rapidly growing sector and can be a solid investment. Starting to invest in companies like Microsoft or Apple, which have a strong track record, can lead to significant returns over time. Educate yourself about financial management and start building your financial literacy early.

Mental Health and Personal Growth

‘Meditation’ and ‘Read books other than academics. Be open to entrepreneurship. Be a friend to yourself you are the best friend to you in this whole world’. Mental health is paramount, and meditation can help you manage stress and build resilience. Read widely, engage in entrepreneurship, and be your own biggest ally in your journey. Entrepreneurship can open up numerous opportunities that traditional paths might not afford you. Surround yourself with positivity and self-love, and it will reflect in your overall mental and emotional health.

Healthy Boundaries

‘Make Sure you set up healthy boundaries in all of your relationships.’ Good relationships require clear boundaries and mutual understanding. Understand your limits and communicate them openly with others. This practice not only strengthens your current relationships but also prepares you for future ones. Healthy boundaries enhance your happiness and well-being, and prevent misunderstandings and conflicts.

Embracing Independance

‘Live your life the way you want to live it and don’t worry about what anyone else thinks. It’s not their life it’s yours’. Your life is a magical journey, full of possibilities. Embrace it fully. Dive into experiences that excite you, follow your passions, and be true to yourself. Remember the words of Olin Miller, 'You probably wouldn’t worry about what people think of you if you could know how seldom they do.' Relish every moment, trusting that your life path is your own. No one can live your life but you, so make the most of it!